I met, what seems to be, the most wonderful guy ever. He is so thoughtful, kind, and he seems genuine but I am so scared to let my feelings go…because I am afraid that I don’t deserve someone like this…and after all the bad experiences I have had with guys, I don’t know if he is for real or if he’s just really good at acting. I am afraid because my feelings are developing too quickly…I guess I’m in that “honeymoon” phase but I know it won’t last forever. I wish I could stop my feelings and just be able to assess the situation with a clear mind so that I don’t do anything rash or make any mistakes…but my heart is just so strung up. I can’t control it.
His name is Daniel. It has only been a week. Last Friday (Good Friday/Velky Patek), we met for the first time. A few months ago I had reactivated my Tinder, I was just bored and looking for something to do…and at best meet new people. It’s so weird because for the past few months, I have just been so thankful for how far God has brought me in my emotional growth. Up until, I would say, last year, I was so insecure. I cared so much what people thought about me. I wanted them to think I: was attractive, smart, funny, easy to get along with…etc. I sought validation in men because I always felt like I was ugly. Every time I went out I would look at every girl and in my head feel sad because I thought of how pretty every woman was and how ugly I was in contrast, so I mostly used Tinder as a way to boost my ego and I hoped to meet new people who I could be friends with.
My private Czech teacher had been telling me that I needed to practice my Czech or it would never get better…and I should try to make Czech friends…so in my foolishness, I thought I could find that through Tinder. I made my profile and I wrote on there: ” I am from Canada, I am a student. I’m just looking for friends and to meet new people. I am mostly here to practice my Czech. Males and females welcome. ” At first, I set the age limit to really high (37-50 years old) because I was trying to avoid seeing people I knew on there (or them seeing me) and I especially wanted to avoid seeing this Italian guy that I’ve been talking on and off too. With the Italian guy, I like him a lot as a friend…At some point, I had started to like him…or think that I could maybe pursue something more with him but one day, when I was really feeling the idea, I invited him over to spend the weekend. Normally, I wouldn’t. I felt like he had been too fast with me…but I wanted to explore this idea. He basically said “listen, I like you but you live too far (an hour and a half away) and I don’t want to change my routine or schedule for you, plus you don’t want to have sex with me and I don’t see how a relationship without sex would be different than having a dog”, or something along those lines. That hurt me so much because I invited him over for the weekend, against my better judgement, to give it a chance and to allow the opportunity to at least get a little bit physical. Anyway, after that, I had 0 feelings for him…but I think he later started to like me again and I just wanted to avoid seeing him on Tinder.
So anyway, Daniel messaged me on Tuesday night (April 16th). He asked me what I was doing in Hradec Kralove. Now the normal me would have just unmatched him at that point because I HATE it when guys ask me questions of which the answers are on my profile. It shows me that they didn’t even bother to read my profile. Meanwhile, I had read his profile (I barely looked at his photos), and he seemed interesting and like we had a lot of common interests so I swiped right…but I didn’t unmatch him. I remember telling myself, “oh just be cool”, so I told him to go read my profile with a smiley face. He read it, came back, and then we started talking. He told me about his travels, we talked about Czech culture, what I liked to do…then he asked me if I wanted to speak in Czech. I said okay.
We talked late into the night and then he told me he had to go to bed so he said good night. Then on Wednesday, he messaged me to say Good morning and resumed our conversation in Czech. He then gave me his Whatsapp and told me to add him if I felt like it. We were talking, and I just thought the conversation was okay, nothing great but I added him on Whatsapp because it was easier to speak through there. He asked me if I wanted him to correct my Czech and I said yes, and we continued speaking about food, culture …etc. He then asked me if I wanted to meet up on Good Friday because it was a bank holiday.
The normal me would have said no. Usually, I like to talk to guys for a while before I meet up with them, just to know where their heads are at, if we share the same values, and if we want the same thing…and most importantly, if I should waste my time…but I don’t know why, I said yes! I guess I just saw it as an opportunity to speak Czech with an actual Czech person that wasn’t a medical student…and I had nothing planned for Good Friday anyway, other than studying, so we made plans to meet in the morning.
On Thursday, I dressed so cute and I was feeling myself…so I asked if we could meet then instead. Mind you, I wasn’t expecting anything out of this…but I guess I just wanted someone to see me looking cute. He told me he was busy until past 8pm and he didn’t think it would good to meet strangers that late. I thought that was weird, because normal Czech guys would just say, okay, let’s go for a beer…but whatever.
So Velky Patek came, and I went to meet him. He showed up and I was shocked because he was really handsome. In his pictures, man…that guy doesn’t know how to flatter himself in photos. Meanwhile, I looked like a bum. Again, I just imagined this as a Czech conversation class, so when we went to the cafe, I wanted to pay for my own drinks, he wouldn’t let me. We went to sit outside, and we started speaking Czech. I was sitting with the sun facing me directly. We spoke Czech slowly, and he was so patient and kind correcting me. We talked about shallow things like what we liked to do, what we like to eat (since we both love and are adventurous with food), I found out that he loves cooking… etc. He had traveled a lot and was a great swimmer and diver. I told him that I hadn’t traveled much…and I haven’t even gone to many places in the Czech Republic. Then we talked about more deep things like what our goals were, our families, why he had been single for 2 years…etc. He told me about his past, the things he did that he was ashamed of. He was even ashamed to tell me because he thought I’d judge him…but I didn’t judge him and I was so glad he was honest with me. The thing that stuck out to me the most was how kind and patient he was. I started complaining about how hot the sun was so he switched sides with me. I could literally see the sweat beading on his his face and he got sunburned because of it.
He then brought out a bunch of worksheets that he had found on the internet that he thought would help me and began to explain them so patiently to me. I didn’t expect someone to put in so much effort for the first meeting. I was in awe. Then he had to leave because he wanted to help his dad move. Before he did, he offered to drop me wherever I wanted, but I said no and walked to school. I had such a great time meeting him. He messaged me later telling me he had a great time also and he sent me a playlist that he had made specifically for me which contained good Czech movies with English subtitles so that I could practice listening to Czech. I didn’t expect him to do so much work for me. I was so happy. He then asked me if I would like to go to Podebrady with him the next day since I said I hadn’t been to many places in the Czech Republic. I was like ohhh, I’ve been to Podebrady many times, I teach there every Saturday but I just go to teach and leave. He told me that he had only been once and at night time so he doesn’t remember it much, so we could explore it together. He had to watch his auntie’s dog, and she lived 6km away from Podebrady so we could go to podebrady together then he would leave to watch her dog. I said okay. I didn’t give a shit about Podebrady but I wanted to spend more time with a guy who was so nice to me.
Saturday
Daniel came to pick me up at 9:30 and we went to Podebrady. We spent the whole day there. There was an Italian cars festival…etc. We walked around a lot, we talked a lot. He told me the names he has decided for his future kids, he told me that he wants to live in Hradec…He told me the 5 most important qualities he wants in a woman. He was still sunburned from the day before, and then he got sunburned again on Saturday. We went to the Podebrady museum, then we went to lunch at a Czech Restaurant. It was buffet style. He found this amazing restaurant which has I don’t know 5 stars, and he wanted us to eat there. He really wanted me to try typical Czech food but the restaurant was closed, so we ended up going to that buffet. The normal me would have gone up for so many rounds, but with Daniel, I didn’t feel like I had to stuff my face. I wasn’t trying to give the false impression that I didn’t eat a lot, but I had already been feeling insecure about my weight after looking at my old pics from when I was bodybuilding to now when I have gained like 10 pounds…and I wanted to lose it. When we were eating, we were talking a lot so I was eating a lot slower and drinking more water, so I felt so full even though I barely ate anything, and I tried stuff off his plate too. At the end of the day, I took the train home. My phone was almost dead and he wanted to give me his power bank but I didn’t take it. I told him I would probably fall asleep on the train. He looked at when the train was supposed to arrive in Hradec, then he started messaging me to wake up so I wouldn’t miss my stop. I didn’t message him because my phone was dead. 2 hours later he was worried, and I finally messaged him and he was happy. When I got into Hradec, I went and bought some sunscreen for him. Throughout the date, Daniel didn’t ask for anything. He didn’t push me for a hug, he didn’t ask me to kiss him, he didn’t even ask to hold my hand. I appreciated that because I had never been with a guy who wasn’t asking for something after the 1st date, especially when they pay for your meal. We messaged through the night then he asked me to go for a picnic with him on Sunday. He would pick me up after church. I told him I would but then later, I realized I wanted to study so I asked him if I could cancel the picnic. He told me it was okay since I’m here for my school first and everything else last…but if I had some free time and needed a study break, I should let him know because he really wanted to see me
Sunday
I went to church and then to school to studied. I studied for about 6 hours then I had enough and I messaged Daniel that I was free. He wanted to pick me up from uni, but I went home to change first. I was wearing a crop top with a deep cleavage and a mini skirt. Damn, my boobs looked so good. I wanted to look sexy for him, but he never stared at my cleavage (or at least, I don’t think he did…if he did, he must be really slick). I gave him the sunscreen I bought for him and he was really shocked and happy. I told him I needed to get some things from the mall first. He drove me to the mall (AGAIN, I WASN’T EXPECTING HIM TO DO ALL THIS DRIVING FOR ME, I KNOW GAS ISN’T CHEAP), then drove me back home to drop the things off, then we went for a walk. We walked and talked for a long time, and then we went to sit by the river. He took off his jacket at laid it on the ground so I wouldn’t have to sit on the grass. He left the entire jacket for me, but I was like no, there’s room and I scooched over so he could sit. We talked and talked and then I insisted on taking a photo. I took a photo of the scenery and I insisted we take a selfie. And we took our first selfie together (he hates photos, but he looked really nice in this one). Then he walked again. He took off his hoodie and gave it to me because I was freezing…so he froze instead. We talked about everything and he showed me the constellations. We spent about 5 hours together, and when we got back to my place, he kissed me on the cheek. I wasn’t expecting. It was just a light brush of his lips across my cheek, but it felt nice. Since the first day I met Daniel, I had been noticing his lips. I NEVER NOTICE GUY’S LIPS, but I had been staring at them. They were pink and looked so soft and so nice, I wanted to kiss him so much since the first day and I have never been like a kissy person. I don’t think I’m good at it so I like to avoid it, but I wanted to kiss Daniel.
When I got inside, he messaged me saying that he was sorry he didn’t ask about the kiss. He didn’t want to scare me but he wanted to show me he liked me and a kiss seemed like a good way how. I told him I didn’t mind. I told him that on Monday, I won’t be able to hang out, I needed to study
Monday
I left my house so late to go study. Daniel was messaging me and telling me to go study, that I needed to do at least 6 hours so he could see me. I didn’t leave my house till past 3…then, I went to Taz’s house. I had planned some picnic with Taz and another guy at the church and Botshelo but the weather was bad so I asked Taz if we could just eat pizza at her place. I wasn’t planning to see Daniel that day, but he texted me around 4 asking if I’d like to go golfing with him at 5…but since I hadn’t left my house till almost 4, and I had done 0 studying, I said no. I went to Taz’s house hoping to study at least 2 hours, but we ended up watching a movie…Then I ordered Pizza and Ed came over and we ate and talked for a bit. I realized I wasn’t doing any work and I wanted to see Daniel instead so I left the “picnic” early and I told Daniel I was free and that I have a pizza for him. He came to pick me up and since I, again, wasn’t dressed appropriately for the weather, he took me home. I changed into jeans, a sweater and a tshirt and i took my mittens and we went for a walk. Each time I was near him, I could smell him. He smelled so nice. Normally, I HATE THE SMELL of guy’s cologne, but he smelled SO NICE. I found excuses to touch him. This time we walked and talked for 4 hours. Even with my mittens on, my hands were still freezing, and I showed him, and he held my hand for the first time. His hands were so warm. He has palmar hyperhidrosis and his hands were sweating a lot, and I could tell he was feeling self consciocous, but the sweat didn’t bother me, I was just glad he was holding my hand. I could feel myself getting sick as we walked and I told him. He gave me some tips and he offered to drive me to the hospital phamarcy so we could get some medicine. I said no. I didn’t want this guy to keep spending his gas on me. I told him I’d be fine He dropped me off at home and again, he didn’t ask for anything.
I messaged him telling him he smelled nice blah blah and we talked into the night. He was sad that he had to go back to work on Tuesday and this week he had to work extra hours so he wouldn’t get to see me as much.
Tuesday
Every morning, Daniel messages me Good morning, wishing me a good day and throughout the day he asks me how things are going and wants me to send him pictures of my day. I was falling more and more infatuated with this guy. He asked me what my plans were and I told him I planned to study the entire day. He asked me if I was feeling better and I told him my throat still itched a little bit. We talked a bit throughout while I made my notes. Then he asked me if I would have any time for him. I told him we could meet for an hour at 6, because that’s when I would be taking my study break. He came to pick me up at 6 . It was raining. Again, I wasn’t dressed appropriatley for the weather. We went to a dimly lit romantic cafe and ate some sweet things and I drank hot tea. We talked and talked and talked. Then we had some moments of silence. I asked him what he was thinking. He hesitated and bit his lip. He told me he didn’t want to tell me. I asked him why not, he told me because it could ruin the moment. I begged and begged him to say, and he hesitated. I could see he was clearly uncomfortable talking about it, so I told him he didn’t have to say it. When it was time to pay, he wanted to, but I begged him to let me treat him. I told him please, I want to treat you too, would that be okay? He hesitated and finally said yes. He looked at the time and saw that an hour had passed then he said it was time to drop me off at school. I didn’t want the date to end but he insisted that I had to study. When he dropped me off at school, he brought out a basket from his back seat. He had made me dinner because he thought I’d be hungry studying late, he had also brought me fruit, then he brought me medication for fever, different medication for sore throat and then he brought me hot tea. I almost cried. I’d never met a guy who was so caring about me. I was in so much shock. I leaned in to hug him and my lips were by his face, I could tell he wanted to kiss me, but I hesitated because I didn’t know if I should…I turned to leave the car then at the last minute I changed my mind and I turned back and kissed him. His lips were softer than I imagined and he was such as good kisser. So gentle and so sweet, just like him. The best kiss I have ever had. Then he shyly told me that this what he was thinking about in the cafe, kissing me. I thought he was thinking about sex or something, but he was thinking about something so innocent. When I went back to school, I couldn’t stop thinking about him, and then the dilemma started.
Here I was catching feelings for this guy. I never intended this. I didn’t want a boyfriend right now. I couldn’t afford to be distracted. 3rd year is the year when a lot of people fail and get kicked out. Then, he was also NOT christian and my whole life I’d been raised to pursue relationships with God fearing Christians. We were from completely different cultures and Daniel cares about some Czech traditions that I couldn’t give a crap about. We were raised differently so I know the importance of having a good common ground and a higher cause such as God because I know this chemistry and honeymoon phase wouldn’t last forever. I was feeling that we were moving too fast. We didn’t take the time to be friends first, but everything felt so right and I was so happy…but I was scared, I was nervous, and I was confused. I wanted this so much but I didn’t know if it was right. I messaged him later that night thanking him, and I told him I wouldn’t be able to meet him the next day but we needed to talk. He asked me if he should be worried because now he was scared, I told him he didn’t need to be worried.
Wednesday
I stayed in school studying all day. Daniel messaged me periodically throughout the day and asked me when I would be free, he really wanted to see me and he wanted to know what I wanted to talk about. I studied but I was distracted because I had to run a few errands so I wasn’t as effective as I needed to be. I told him I was taking a break so we could go for a walk. He drove to me and he brought me a muffin because he thought I might be hungry. We went for a walk by the school and he held my hand again. He told me he was embarrassed because he was sweating. I told him I didn’t care, it’s just sweat. He told me that when we first met, he was so nervous to meet me because he was scared that his English wasn’t that good and that I was too pretty for him. I was shocked. Throughout the walk and just throughout the week, Daniel would say and do things that made me realize that he wasn’t just this way with me, he was this way with everyone. He was just a kind and thoughtful person. I felt myself falling fast. I couldn’t even catch myself. I would stop throughout the walk to kiss his cheek, to hug him, to tell him how much I appreciated how kind and thoughtful he was to me. He stopped me and started smiling so widely. I asked him what he was thinking about. He told me he was so happy. I asked him why, and he said because I think you like me. I couldn’t stop liking this guy! He asked me what I wanted to talk about, I didn’t have the courage to bring it up so I told him I’d message him about it. He was so worried. We kissed again. I didn’t want to pull away. After an hour and a half, I was back in school studying. I messaged Daniel to tell him what a good time I had. He told me he did too but I should tell him what I wanted to talk about. I poured out my heart. I told him how I felt I was falling too fast, how I liked him so much and it felt so good to be with him but I was confused , how I didn’t know what he wanted from this and that when things move too fast, they fizzle out fast. He told me that things are moving fast but when you meet someone special, it can happen like that. He told me that he doesn’t agree that things burn out quickly when they start quickly. He told me that he thinks about me all the time, he misses me all the time, he looks at our photo together 1000 times. He told me that about the future, he didn’t want to scare me but: “I want you to be my girlfriend, and want to take care about you a want to treat you, I want tell you my biggest secrets, I want wake up next to you. I want to get you know as no one before.
If you want to slow down and don’t see me as often I am fine with that. You have got as much time as you want, I don’t want to lose you.
You don’t talk too much I mean it is good to be open and honest from start.”
These were his exact words, I almost cried. I told him I want the same things too but in my church we had learned that you should be friends with a person first otherwise when the chemistry dies you guys wouldn’t work when you start having problems. I told him that I had always said I’d never be in a relationship with a guy that I wasn’t friends with first, but here I was considering these things with him, blah blah. He said: “I have never thought about it like I should be friends with someone first. I think we have lot of things in common.
I would never tell you that I don’t want to spend time with you anymore. My feelings are true so I like you as much as I told you. I couldn’t let you go.
I don’t know how to solve it because I think we can’t become friends now and then start from beginning. I like you too much for that. I would be sad if I couldn’t hold your hand, hug you and kiss you. I mean if exists anything what I can do to feel you better tell me I’ll do it.”
I agreed, I couldn’t go back to not hugging, not holding hands, and not kissing his sweet sweet lips. I told him we could try it but please lets hold off on the more physical stuff. I don’t want to move fast with that (to be honest, I think about sex with Daniel so much but I have waited this long to have sex, and have been waiting till I get married, but I think about it with him so much…but I know I shouldn’t do this with him).
He said: “No worries I am much more interested about you as a person than you body. I promise you that I won’t do anything until you will tell me or you will do it first. You have as much time as you need.”
I was more infatuated than ever! We talked a bit more then good night.
Thursday.
I wish I never went to that stupid dinner. I promised Daniel that I’d make him lunch. He told me I didn’t have to and I shouldn’t because I need to study. He’s worried about my exams and doesn’t want me to fail. I’m so worried about my exams but I wanted to make him something. I went home after the hospital and made him salmon rice and veggies. He came to pick me up at 6 because I wanted to give him the food. I told him I had a dinner at 7 and he wanted to spend that hour with me. We walked and talked. I don’t know why, but I was feeling shy that day. Then he dropped me off, I kissed him, and I couldn’t pull away. I told him that I needed a break that I didn’t want to see him Friday and Saturday so that I could focus on my studies, then on Sunday, we could have a day together. He says it’s so far away but he agrees. I got out of the car, then got back in to keep kissing his cheeks because he was so sweet. I went to the dinner. While I was there, Daniel messaged me saying he could still feel my kisses on his cheek. My heart melted. The dinner was some Christian thing with this Christian missionary couple. I didn’t want to go but my friend had invited me and because I like my friend, I went. I wish I didn’t go. Normally, the couple would do some “discipleship training” but this time they put themselves in the hot seat and said we could ask any questions we wanted…and of course, some girl had to go ask about their relationship, how they met etc. They started talking and they didn’t say anything wrong. No one at that table knew I was dating but everything they were saying was making me cry because how they melt was all bible this at some bible conference then they started doing mission work together blah blah. It was too christiany, and I felt like I was doing something wrong with Daniel because we didn’t have this. We met on tinder and then we were kissing.
I left the dinner and my heart hurt so much. Why could something that feel so good be so bad? Why was a man who was SO GOOD to me so bad for me? I burst out crying then I went to see Katrin, a friend of mine who had been in the exact same situation, and after years of fighting it and pushing the guy off because he wasn’t christian, she decided to date him. I wanted to hear her experience because I had been there, I had seen how much it had hurt her to say no to him, how much she had cried. We talked for over an hour and then we prayed together, I felt better.
I hadn’t been answering Daniel the whole night because I was busy. By the time I finished at Katrin’s, I had missed the bus so I started the 45 min walk home at almost midnight. Daniel messaged me to tell me he loved what I cooked and he gave it a 4/5 on the Daniel scale (a joke we have…apparently the broccoli could have been cooked better). I didn’t want to tell Daniel what happened but I decided to . With every other guy, I always want to impress them so I lie or I don’t know, because I want them to like me. With Daniel, I just want to be my raw honest self and have him see me and decide if he likes me…and I pray he would…so I decided to tell him everything that happened at the dinner and afterwards. He wa shocked. He said he didn’t know Christians were that strict. I told him that I felt better and that I don’t know what the future holds but I know I enjoy how I feel now, and as long as I don’t get distracted from my studies, I want to enjoy what we have now.
I told him I was walking home alone. He freaked out like it’s so dark blah blah. It’s not safe. I told him I’d be okay. He told me he would come pick me up but he drank a glass of wine and in the Czech Republic, the alochol limit for driving is so low. I said it was okay. I called my mom and I put her on speaker and was talking to her as I was messaing Dan. All of a sudden, around the hospital area, this guy comes and starts following really close to me, like super close. He wouldn’t leave me alone. He was asking me to follow him, I said no no I don’t speak Czech but he wouldn’t leave me alone. He tried to grab my arm. I was telling my mom this but my mom was so distracted she didn’t hear me. I messaged Daniel, he freaked out. Where are you, where are you? I didn’t respond because I was trying to deal with the guy and talking to my mom. Eventually the guy left. As I’m walking (I’m about a 20 min walk from home now), daniel starts calling my phone. I pick it up and he’s freaking out where are you. I tell him it’s fine the guy left I’m okay. He won’t stop asking where I am. I tell him to go home that it’s almost midnight, he has to work tomorrow and I don’t want him to be tired. He won’t go. He says he can’t go home till he knows i’m safe. I tell im I’ll call him when I am home. He refuses to leave. Finally I tell him where I am and in 2 seconds he’s there. I texted Daniel about the guy at around 11:13pm and at 11:18 he was there picking me up, he was dressed in his pyjamas and looked tired. My heart was melting. I complained to him that he didn’t have to come pick me up I would have been fine, I didn’t want to stress him. He said: you shoudln’t feel upset, you should feel happy that you are so important to me I want to do this. I was having a small heart attack when you told me. He apologizes and tells me not to be angry but he just was really worried and he couldn’t have lived with himself if something happened to me and he could have stopped it but didn’t. I can’t stop thankfing him, he drives me home and drops me off. We don’t kiss. When he gets home I’mt exting him and I can’t stop thanking him for what he did for me. He tells me he would do this for everyone he knows. We talk past midnight and then we fall asleep.
I like this guy so much SOOOO MUCH. He is so perfect and so good to him. I want to love him so much. I want to kiss him, I want to always be there for hm, I want to be his best friend. I want to support him. Iwant so much and it’s too early to be wanting all these things…but he wants the same.
Friday,
I miss Daniel so much. I didn’t see him the whole day. He was messagine me a lot at first but then he stopped. I started panicking, what if he is talking to someone else, what if he is bored of me. I study for a few hours then I call my brother and we talk about it for a while. After I finsih the call I see a message from Daniel: I have been thinkign about you the whole day but I didn’t want to distrub you because you are studying. MY heart melts even more and i realize I was worried for nothing and imagning the worst.
Saturday,
I don’t see Daniel again. I miss him so much but I had a lot to do today. He asks if we can meet, I say we can’t because I need to do many things and I need to study. He says okay. I forgot my lunch at home, he made lunch for me and wanted to come drop it off at the hospital for me. I tell him no and I promsie to eat a good lunch. We talk here and there. He is planning our date tomorrow. He’s gonna cook for me and we will watch some Czech movies. He’s so happy he gets to spend the day with me tomorrow. I make pancakes for Kristyna and Marketa and I go to Tyna’s house and I spill the beans. They both had similar experiences and they tell me to end it. It hurts so much. They say that nothing good comes out of it. Kristyna is going through th exact same thing now and it is hurting her so much and she doesn’t know how to end it. Krystina comes up with a plan, that we ask our guys for a 3 week break (because it apparently takes 21 days to break a habit) where we will note see or message them for 3 weeks…and if after 3 weeks the feelings aren’t gone, then we can message them and take it from there. I agree to the plan, but I don’t know if I can do it. We agree to start on Monday. All I’m thinking about is spending the day with Daniel tomorrow. I can’t wait to see him, but I have to do this. My heart is breaking. He will probably find someone else.
All my other friends tell me not to miss out on this and just enjoy it for what it is. My mom and brother have also been in the loop the whole time. Bro has just been giving me advice. Mom wants me to end it and choose God and focus on my studies.
I don’t know how I can end it, especially after I have promised to meet him May 1st for this Czech tradition where guys kiss their girlfriends under blooming Cherry trees and I agreed to go to a movie with him on Thursday.